Saien ji yeh sub uss parwerdigar k raz hain. Nice poetry by Saeen Akhtar Lahoree, apnay dil ki bharass nikali huiii hay iss farsooda nazam aur lower class mushkul zindagii k halat k khilaff. Allah mian uthay re k bhe sab kam ker sakta hai : wo sabb daikh rha hai saey gee :. Saen Lahori se guzarish hay ke Allah se Shikwa to kar lyaa, abb Insan ke gunahon ka zikr bhi karay Jawab e Shikwa?
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This week the Census of India exposed our veneer of India shinning. More girl children are missing in a century. We need to be internationally rewarded for our extreme success in eliminating girl children in the year age group. We are really very near to solving the problem of crime against women; simple formula no women no crime against women. This video compliments what she says. But if marriage was the bane of desi woman kind then there ought not to be other crimes against women outside the homes and especially married women.
Marriage as an explanation for failing sex ratio is too simplistic; oppression of women is complex and multifactorial phenomenon. Few weeks ago DG made a comment on a post about if marriages are over rated.
Understanding desi marriage is a bit complex. To marry is one of the favorite national hobbies besides feeding corruption in the desi world read South Asia, our neighbors are no different than us; rather they compete to keep the tabs with us.
Marriages and death feasts became the deciding point. It is then a rise in female infanticide along with dowry was observed. It is not to say that communities did not practice female infanticide before that rather there were communities that took pride in the fact they were the bride takers and not bride givers. Village Devra in Rajasthan did not marry a single daughter in years and now again is in news for all the wrong reasons.
In a culture that worships women as Goddesses in the religious texts why there is inherent hatred for living women is something to ponder about. What does a marriage has to offer that women and their families spend all their energies and monies to feed this oppressor? If women are oppressed by the inequalities inherent in marriage so are their natal families. Is marriage only oppressive to women?
If marriage benefits men then do all men benefit from it? If not then who are these men who lose in marriage and why? The natal families do not just comprise of all women they do have male members, brothers, fathers and other kinsmen. Are they oppressed too? Marriage is not the end goal but is the new beginning to sustain this monstrous system.
On every festival her natal kin is expected to send gifts to her and her in-laws. Does it ever end? Her reputation depends on these gifts. DG recalls a rich uncle of a friend; he married his son to a lower economic class same caste young lady with no dowry. Instead of appreciating his effort and emulating it people in the community gossiped about his son, that he had some flaw impotency that he had to be sold for no dowry.
His young daughter-in-law was discriminated by other women in the family because she came from poor family and often did not have lofty gifts from her parents to flaunt. May be the helicopter they saved for is not good enough to secure her a prince in shinning amour. Herparents could not pay a dowry so they marry her to a widower with children her age.
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